So, you browsed around on a very popular online dating site and checked out all those stunningly attractive women and you just can't wait to fire off witty emails to get there attention. Right? Or, you've written up what you think is an AWESOME profile and its time to submit it online and wait for a flood of responses from HOT women. Hold on! Don't you dare sign up to ANY Internet dating sites or write any profiles because you have something very important to do first. What is it you ask?

Well, you HAVE to get your head on straight!

Let me ask you some questions.

-Did you just get out of a very serious relationship that ended badly? -Are you freshly divorced or separated? -Are you out to replace your ex as SOON AS POSSIBLE to fill a certain void in your life?

If you answered “yes” to any of the above questions, then do me and every woman who has a dating profile a favor… and just wait! That's right, just wait and take the time to get your life together and your issues resolved. The reason is if you go out and start dating online and don't have your life together, then you are setting yourself up for failure. Do you think a beautiful, attractive, high quality woman wants to deal with a guy who still has issues and can't let go of an ex? Of course not!

And the whole reason for getting into Internet dating is to attract a high quality woman for YOU, right? Now, if you go online and spew your venom and insecurities all over the place, who do you think you are going to attract?

Yep, another woman with the SAME issues.

Why is this? Because like attracts like when it comes to maturity and character. Take a moment and think back to all the women you've dated over the years. Got it? Good! Now, which ones were a total pain in the butt?

I'm talking “SCREAM in your face every time you look at another woman” kind of pain in the butt?

Hm, if you're like me, there were a lot of them.

OK, now try and think back to what state of mind YOU were in at the time. Were things going well for you? Was your self-esteem intact? Did you really feel good about yourself? Maybe not, huh?

During the last ten years I've met a lot of women online and one thing I've found is that when I don't have my life together, I seem to attract the most super ultra high drama queens imaginable. And the relationship never lasts… And I wasted a lot of time.

I don't want you to waste your time. I want you to find a HIGH QUALITY woman who will be right for YOU. So, before you go online and start corresponding with anyone, take a LONG look in the mirror and ask yourself; am I ready? Do I have it together?

Once you do the work to get these issues resolved, I GUARANTEE that you will have better results meeting high quality women online. And that's what it's all about!